The Secret Shortcut to a Man’s Heart >> Dating for Women

Today I’m going to be sharing with you the SECRET shortcut to making a guy fall in love with you. But first, I have to warn you: this may feel unnatural.

It may feel scary and go against all of your intuitive feminine instincts.

But it works – I promise.

The secret shortcut to a man’s heart is: to let him IN, you first have to set him FREE.

Let me explain.

Men are extremely independent by nature. They like to live by their own rules and make their own decisions.

They CRAVE freedom.

One of guys biggest fears in dating is that a relationship will take AWAY all of their freedom.

A guy may have seen a woman enter one of his best buddies lives, only to find that 6 months down the track his friend is no longer turning up to golf or boys nights, AND he is selling the motorbike he used to ride every weekend.

‘No way is that happening to me’, he thinks to himself.

And as a result, the minute he senses a woman starting to organize his schedule or question how much time he spends with the guys, he leaves her without looking back.

The thing is, a man already has so many demanding responsibilities and obligations in his everyday life – don’t we all? So the LAST thing he wants is to feel that he is coming home to yet another obligation.

Obligation is like the DEATH of freedom. It’s the difference between HAVING to do something and WANTING to do something.

Obviously, the OPPOSITE of what any woman wishes to do is push the guy she likes away.

But we women have our own feminine instincts. Rather than craving freedom, we crave emotional closeness and CONNECTION. And naturally, we want to pull our men closer to us – and keep them close.

So to try to satisfy our needs for love and reassurance, we look for signs like how much time our man is spending with us, and how much he prioritizes us over other people and things in his life.

And often if we feel that we aren’t being given ENOUGH time and attention, we complain about it.

When instead, we should really be exercising the SECRET shortcut to a man’s heart.

In order to win your man’s heart forever, you have to BECOME his source of freedom!

So rather than asking yourself how you can get a guy to commit to you, ask yourself how you can build up the passion and excitement between the two of you so that he will never WANT to leave.

Make it never feel like an obligation to spend time with you. You have the POWER to create a space of passion, fun, excitement, warmth and affection.

Be the warm haven he wants to ESCAPE to at the end of the day.

Let him have freedom and space to be himself, and show your respect and admiration for everything he does.

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Source: http://www.meetyoursweet.com/women/blog/the-secret-shortcut-to-a-mans-heart

3 Conversation Tips You NEED To Know >> Dating tips for Men

Ok. So you’re at the bar with a couple of friends and you notice the striking brunette you’ve had your eyes for the last 40 minutes approach the bar alone.

Now’s your chance. If you’re going to talk to her, this is it.

I bet you’re feeling pretty nervous at this point, right? Because this IS the hardest part – actually working up the courage to talk to her when you know there’s a chance you could get blown off.

But the thing is, right now you are both just two strangers in a bar, and by casually greeting her you really have nothing to lose.

Hey, there will always be some risks – she may already have a partner or you may not be her type, but if you don’t try then you’ll never know.

But only a really bitchy woman would completely crush a guy when he approached her – and this is NOT the kind of woman you’d want to be with anyway.

So go on, approach the bar. And follow these three simple but highly effective steps for making attraction-sparking conversation:

1. Start light in your approach. 
Pull up beside the hot brunette (not too close, not too far away), smile and say “Hey”. See how she responds and then ask the bartender for your drink.

If the hot girl smiles, says “Hey” back and turns TOWARDS you rather than away, this is a great sign. If she gives a quick reply and turns away towards her table, this is a sign that for whatever reason, she’s not interested, and you’re best to set your sights on someone else.

It’s that simple. So if she is turning towards you and lingering at the bar, this is the perfect time to strike up a casual conversation.

Note: You don’t need much to strike up a conversation with her – don’t think too much about your line. You do NOT have to use any cheesy pick-ups here or go into heavy topics.

In fact, the LAST thing that a girl wants is to be bombarded with heavy questions from a guy straight away, e.g. what she does, where she grew up, as this just SCREAMS ‘desperate’ to her.

Instead, simply start by introducing yourself and offer your hand to shake if it feels right. Then just ask something casual like; “Having a good night?” or “Are you watching the game?”

Believe me, if she’s into you and she’s enjoying the conversation, you can tell this simply by the fact that she is allowing the conversation to continue.

And if you start up light and casual, the convo will naturally start to get deeper as it goes on.

2. Eye contact is key
As you are talking to the hot brunette, it’s important to project the right kind of body language, to make her feel engaged but comfortable in your presence.

First of all, think about your body position. You want to be facing slightly towards her, to show you are interested in the conversation, but not fully face her front-on, as this may be too intense.

So if you were up at the bar, try facing slightly towards her and slightly towards the bar at the same time, so you are keeping your body language open.

Alternatively, you could turn to face slightly outwards so that you are facing her as well as the other people in the bar. Be wary of facing this way though – you don’t want her to think that you are wanting to leave and go back to your table.

With open body language, she will be able to relax in your presence and feel that she is free to leave at any time – which is important.

The next step is to make sure that you make a lot of eye contact as you are listening to her. This shows that you are interested in what she is saying, and also projects self-confidence.

If you avoid making eye contact, you may come across as insecure, unconfident or disinterested.

And the BEST thing about making deep eye contact is that it is guaranteed to amp-up the SEXUAL attraction between you and your girl, as it literally causes feel-good hormones to be produced.

3. Bring ENERGY to the conversation. 
To hook your girl into the conversation, you need to project ENERGY and get her addicted to your great VIBES.

Women love being around men who radiate energy and are making them smile and laugh continuously. Aim to bring the hot woman you are talking to UP and make her feel GOOOD being around you.

How do you do this?

Well, we’ve already covered eye contact – this is a must – but what you also want to do is use a lot of facial expression and smile and laugh freely.

Project your voice so she can clearly hear what you are saying (but don’t go TOOO loud – no-one wants to feel like they are being shouted at), and try not to mumble.

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Source: http://www.meetyoursweet.com/men/blog/3-conversation-tips-you-need-to-know

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Original source: http://www.meetyoursweet.com/ (a website for Expert Dating and Relationships Advice for Men and Women)

Attract Women >> If You Lack Self Confidence You Need To Get This Area Of Your Life Sorted Immediately!..

When you're not self-confident, then you get nervous and act differently at times when you feel stressed or need to be at your best. For example on a date, or when you talk to a woman you're attracted to. Learn how to overcome (dating tips for men)

If your confidence betrays you at these vital times, then you may well struggle to make your life turn out the way you want it to. Confidence is attractive, and without it, it's difficult to attract a really good catch.

Why???

People base their assumptions of you on what they know of you. That's why first impressions can be so hard to change. If that's all they know of you, then as far as the other person is concerned, that image they have in their head of you IS YOU.

So if you meet a woman you are attracted to and act nervous, fumble your words, and run out of things to say. Then as far as she knows, you are a guy who is nervous, fumbles your words and runs out of things to say.

Of course a little nervousness with a smile can be endearing and can even help you, but if you can't let your best self-shine through soon and if you end up getting so nervous that you just want to get out of there, then it's hard to see that person you like ever be attracted to you.

Also, a really unfortunate fact is that women may assume from your shy or nervous behavior that you simply don't like being around them. They pick up on your discomfort. They may end up becoming quite negative towards you as a result, because they think that you've rejected them first—when in reality you just didn't know what to say or do.

Click here to learn how to blast away ALL of the following anxieties:
• Anxiety that you may never be able to attract and keep the kind of woman that you REALLY want.
• Anxiety that the woman you want isn't interested in you, or is interested in someone else.
• Anxiety about what to say next.
• Anxiety about what you look like.
• Most importantly.... you'll become a person who enters a relationship WHOLE without needing a woman to 'complete' you (you'll be looking for a woman that 'complements' you instead). This is one of the most powerful and special characteristics that you could possibly offer to a relationship. The self confidence that I want to impart on you will make you a more balanced guy who is able to manage the challenges and negotiations that a relationship will bring.

Original source: http://www.meetyoursweet.com/ (a website for Expert Dating and Relationships Advice for Men and Women)